Wedding Picture Highlights!

A few weeks ago, our photographers sent us about 950 photos of our wedding, and we began the painfully painstaking task of sifting through them and picking out the best 200 to turn into a highlight album.  It was hard.  I spent countless hours -- with some help from Faye, Eddie and Zhimin -- trying pick the best pictures out of large groups of nearly-identical ones, weighing composition and color against how natural the smiles looked (occasionally acceptable) and how awkward our body postures were (nearly always), all the while fighting nausea from all the pouchy kissy pictures we took (believe me, I already took a lot of them out).  In the end, I could only get it down to ~350 -- and I'll be happy if I don't have to look at them again till our ten-year anniversary :-)

   

As painful as organizing these pictures was, it did remind me of how awesome it was to have everyone there on this most amazing of days.  Thanks to you all!

Wedding Highlights Video

Our wedding highlight video is out!  Wow it's pretty painful to watch me reading my vows >_<

Thanks to Jack Gao from Isle Media for doing the shooting and editing!  We love it and can't wait for the full version :-)


Mel & Chung Highlight from Isle Media on Vimeo.

Designing the Wedding Favor

For wedding favors, we decided pretty early on to get tote bags printed with our own design -- something personalized but still useful.  But what design?  Well, that went through several iterations.

Mel wanted something super simple and elegant, like this:


I didn't like it though, partly because...  Well, that's not how portals work!  I wanted something, err, more bizarre.  Like this:
Unfortunately, Mel wasn't a big fan of cranes-as-locusts-of-doom idea for some reason.  Eventually, though, we agreed on something that was both cute and a little off-the-wall, the design you see today:


I hope you guys will be putting your tote bags to good use!  If you forgot to grab your tote bag before you left the wedding, let me know!

Wedding Dress Code!

The wedding is just a month away!  A few people have asked us to clarify the dress code -- just how formal is a beach wedding in Hawaii anyway?  To answer that, we put together this handy dandy guide.  Special thanks to Angela and Jay for being our lovely models! :-)

Way too formal:  We're expecting the weather to be hot and humid, so although you may look amazing in these outfits, you may just want to consider skipping the Mad Men look. Guys, you're not going to want to wear a jacket or even a tie.  Which means that girls, the guys will not be dressed well enough to match your super fancy formal attire and high heels (unless you really want to make him look short). 
Fancy and fine: This is on the formal end of the "just fine" spectrum.  Long-sleeve buttoned-up shirts and slacks for guys, and nice dresses for girls.  If business casual is calling out to you from your closet, go for it! Girls, you may want to match your dress with some nice sandals.
Casual and fine: This is on the casual end of the "just fine" spectrum.  Guys can wear short-sleeve buttoned-up shirts (but not Hawaiian shirts), with shorts to match! Girls can put on sundresses.  Stay cool and be cool! Sandals and flip-flops are OK.
Too ghetto: Okay, swimming gears and t-shirts are not cool, especially that t-shirt. Hawaiian shirts might not be a good choice either. Save those for other occasions; I'm sure you'll have plenty of opportunities to show them off on the island!
Way too ghetto: And please, at least get out of your PJs before you get here! This is not a college classroom!

Designing the surf board

In my last blog post on designing the wedding website, I had mentioned that creating the construction paper header image in Gimp was pretty simple.  Actually, I had a really hard time making the surf board.  After reviewing a ton of surf board designs online and trying countless patterns, I finally came up with this:



It was, err, immediately shot down by Mel and Faye as being too...  reminiscent...  of...  something.  It has since evolved into the family-friendly design that you see today!

Check out Volcanoes National Park!

There may be awesome beaches near Kona, but you'd be missing out if you only stayed on that side of the island!  While the west coast can be dry and arid -- almost like California -- the east coast is wet.  The rains come fast and hard, leaving behind a lush, green landscape, a proper tropical jungle.  Hilo is the biggest city on the east coast (and of the island), and while it's a nice town with a few gorgeous parks nearby along a beautiful river, you really can't spend more than half a day there.  Instead, the real attraction is Volcanoes National Park, the sight that makes the Big Island truly unique.  It's located in the south east corner of the island, about 2.5 hours away from Kona, and it contains an actually live volcano constantly oozing lava, dumping it into the ocean and creating new land.

Mel and I spent 1.5 days there last time.  On the first day, we hiked down to the Kailuea Iki Crater, a moderate 4 mile walk through lush trees down to a stunning vista at the crater bottom.



We also checked out the Thurston Lava Tube, which has an unlit section towards the end that stretches on for 300 meters.  It's completely dark in there.  Mel and I tried walking in with a flash light, got spooked, and ran back out.  Then we thought that was ridiculous, tried to go back in, went a little further, and then ran back out again.  Just as we were about to give up, a small group of fearless Chinese tourists went in like it ain't no thang, and we just followed along.  You may do better.


In the evening, we went to the end of the Ring of Craters Road, where you can hike over a field of lava flows towards the volcano opening, in search of some live lava sightings.  The lava rocks look pretty awesome, like flowing liquid that was flash-frozen.  It actually flowed right over some ill-fated roads, cos it don't care where you put your roads, fool.


There's no "path" to walk through the lava field.  Instead, they've set up six beacons over three miles, and you're supposed to just make your own way from beacon to beacon.  Unfortunately we only made it to the third beacon when we decided to turn back before it got too dark.  Turns out it was impossible to see surface lava that day anyway, and it will probably be impossible for you as well -- check this site for lava updates.  But hiking through the field was still a unique experience!

The next day, we drove along the Crater Rim Drive to catch some easy sights.  The views are stunning.



We recommend staying in the town of Volcano, right outside the park, for easy access.  Don't stay in Hilo -- it's still a drive to get to the park from there, and there's not much to do there anyway!

Designing Our Wedding Website

I'm going to spend a few blog posts talking about our wedding website :-)

The deeper I got into wedding planning, the more I realized that we are really, unashamedly, building a shrine to ourselves, that this will all culminate in an incredibly elaborate (and expensive!) scrapbook.  Even more important than what actually happens on the big day are the things we leave behind -- the photos, the videos, our save-the-date video, and yes, the website -- all things that we can look back on and remember our wedding day by, when our own memories have failed.

So we didn't want to use WeddingWire or MyWedding to build a customized but ultimately cookie-cutter website.  We wanted our website to be, well, an awesome and special entry in the ultimate scrapbook.

For its theme, we decided to continue what we started with our save-the-date video, not just in its use of origami, but in its tone as well.  No, we didn't want a modern, restrained, or "sophisticated" website.  Instead, we wanted something that's bursting with the creative energy of a little kid frantically working on his arts and crafts project on the dinner table.  Something that reflects how we felt when we were making our save-the-date video.  Something fun.

Mel was a little worried about our time budget, though.  "How much longer do you think it'll take to build our own website, versus using WeddingWire?", she had asked.  "Oh, you know", I responded non-chalantly, with that air of I'm-an-engineer-and-this-is-what-I-do-so-you-shouldn't-worry-about-it-ness. "It'll probably just take, like, four hours more."

Riiiight.

The first thing I knew I wanted was an animated paper crane flying randomly around on the page.  I know, I know, it's so "the web circa 1990" with its cheesy, over-the-top, and distracting effects (at least I didn't use the <blink> tag!).  But there's something about it that was just so irresistable.  I actually wanted two cranes, but Mel (correctly) declared them too distracting.  Also, have you tried hovering your mouse over the crane?

The next thing I wanted was a beach that's made from construction paper, just as we did in our save-the-date video.  That was easier than I thought -- a few hours with the path tool in Gimp and we had one.

The hard part was deciding how to present the content.  Mel at first wanted the body to be a big cootie-catcher with an animation opening up each page, like in the opening sequence of Community.  But I convinced her that I did not have the necessary skills, artistic or technical, for fancy animations.  We also toyed with having a physical scrapbook with pages that turn, but that would pretty much mean a scroll bar on each page -- which I hated.

Eventually, we decided to have content on sheets of origami paper that slide into and out of view.  The animation would be simplistic but still lively enough to feel special, and the physical real-objectness of it fits well with our theme.  The first design we tried had papers with their titles written on the corner of the page.  When a page is hidden, the bulk of the paper is off-screen except for that corner, and when a page is shown, the paper swings out into its normal up-right position.


This was kind of cool, but the swinging motion turned out to be too jarring, and made me nauseous after a while.  We expect our guests to feel nauseous while visiting our website, but not from motion sickness!  The animation was also too sluggish on computers that didn't hardware-accelerate some CSS transforms (more on that in another post!).

Next, we tried a more straightforward design, which you see today, with papers simply sliding horizontally from the edge of the table into view.  But there's another problem -- most of the papers on the side will only be showing the title, with their bodies covered by the next sheet of paper.  But what should we do with the last sheet of paper?  We wouldn't want its body to run all the way down the side of the screen!  Mel then devised the clever idea to randomly generate many more sheets of paper after the last, to both cover up the body and to make it feel even more like a messy desktop.

We were pretty happy with the end result!  That's all for now -- more next time!

Snorkeling on Big Island!

Big Island has the best snorkeling out of the Hawaiian Islands.  It's the most tropical, since it's the closest to the equator, so it has corals, turtles, and dolphins in spades.  And because it's the youngest island, it has the least amount of soil run-off in the ocean, resulting in the clearest water.

And there's no better snorkeling on the Big Island than south of Kona at Captain Cook's Monument (aka Kealakekua Bay)and off the shore of Place of Refuge (aka Honaunau Bay).  Unfortunately, both places are inaccessible by land, so you'll need to either book a boat tour, or, if you're more adventurous, plan to kayak there.

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Last time, we went with Sea Quest, which we were pretty happy with.  About 6 of us went out on a little boat, and even before we went into the water, we saw dolphins galore:


Once you're done snorkeling, I'd recommend driving down to Place of Refuge, which is a beautiful park in itself, with a lot of native Hawaiian stuff.  Pretty neat!

Book Your Flights!

If you're going, you should really book your flights soon; the prices are going up!  We have a special group deal with Alaska Airlines -- which flies direct from SJC to KOA -- for 7% off!  You just need to use the discount code of ECMG535, and book your flight dates between 6/3/2012 and 6/17/2012.

If you do buy your ticket using the discount code, please be sure to forward your ticket info to Chung!  We'll get a free ticket if we hit 40 tickets purchased with this code :-)

Get them soon!  You can check what Farecast predicts here.  I wouldn't trust Farecast too much though; it's been predicting lowering prices for the past few weeks while the prices have been going steadily up!

Bucket list for the Big Island


7. Drive from Kona to Hilo - you pass by the most lushes green forest and beautiful waterfalls
6. Relax on the nice beaches scattered throughout the island - black or white sand, it's your pick
5. Snorkel or scuba diving - big island has the best coral reefs among the hawaii islands
4. Swim in a pond under the waterfall - I've seen locals do this and it looks so much fun!
3. Hike to the green sand beach - total seclusion and wilderness awaits you
2. Visit Mauna Kea Observatories - The summit hosts the world's largest astronomical observatory, with telescopes operated by astronomers from eleven countries
1. Hike the lava tubes at the volcano national park - make sure you bring a bright flashlight and a spirit for adventure!

Chung and I are planning on doing some of these. Which ones are you interested in? Leave your comments!

Resort Deals on LivingSocial!

Just a heads-up -- LivingSocial is running deals for two resorts on the Big Island!

The Royal Kona Resort is in the heart of Kona, so it's centrally located in the biggest city on the Kona coast.  That means it's close to lots of restaurants, bars, and of course, souvenir shops :-)  It's about 50 minutes away from our wedding location.

The Halii Kai is right on one of the nicest beaches on the Big Island -- the A-Bay -- and close to other amazing beaches.  It doesn't quite have the conveniences of being in a city, but it's also closer to the wedding as well -- about 20 minutes.

As always, before you buy, you should call the resorts and ask if you can use these coupons for the dates you want!


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Wedding decorations



I finally had a weekend to myself and decided to start on my origami making. My goal, is to make a thousand cranes. An ancient Japanese legend promises that anyone who folds a thousand origami cranes will be granted a wish by a crane. A thousand cranes for one wish, that's a pretty time-consuming price to pay. So I better get started asap.

I had to first shop for origami paper. I had no idea where to go since I am in Oregon, where Daiso is not so easily accessible. Luckily, a coworker told me about this Japanese market where you can find them, Uwajimaya in Beaverton. Although, it's no Daiso, I am glad I was able to buy some decent paper. Getting the paper is the easy part, folding 1000 of cranes will be challenging. I experimented with different ways of folding them to find the most efficient way possible. Right now, I found the most efficient way of doing it is to crease multiple papers at once, and then fold them separately. I timed myself and now I can easily fold a crane in less than 2 min. I know that's still pretty slow, if you know a better way (i.e. <1min), I'd be happy to learn it. I try to not think about how many hours total it will take me to fold all 1000 at this rate. It is a good thing that I'm not that good at math.

I was also contemplating of making fabric flowers. I've seen quite a few of them on etsy and I find them quite cute. I can't imagine them that difficult to make, and I was able to find a few simple tutorials on google. These stay at home moms' websites are pretty helpful.
http://www.maryjanesandgaloshes.com/2011/11/amazing-flower-tutorials-and-giveaway.html
http://mrspriss.com/category/diys-and-tutorials/page/3/

Welcome to Our Blog!

We're super excited to have finally launched our website and blog :-)  You can poke around the website for details of our wedding (which are, ahem, still to come), background story on how we met, and bios of people in the wedding party.  And, of course, remember to RSVP before March 15th, 2012!

We will be using this blog to post updates as they happen.  If you want, you could also choose to follow us on our Google+ page and help contribute to the year-end bonus for those poor Googlers!

Excited to see you here, and even more excited to see you in Hawaii!